To most Texans, hospitality extends beyond one’s own home. Just ask JeriLynne Clifford, a hospitality expert known as the Hill Country Bon Vivant. In 2023, Clifford and her husband were vacationing in Italy when lightning struck and burned down their Fredericksburg home. In response, Clifford’s community started a collection to set her up with cooking supplies and even “pulled my husband’s truck out of the fire so we would at least have a car when we got home.” In the ashes of disaster, Clifford felt blessed by Texas hospitality. Here she offers her best advice for returning the favor. hillcountrybonvivant.com
Read Minds
“Foresee your guests’ needs. If I have an overnight guest, I usually put a tray on their bed with the Wi-Fi password, some water, and a snack. For a gathering at your home, set the tone. I like to have drinks ready and candles and music going before the guests arrive. A home is more than just a building. It’s a feeling of comfort, well-being, and belonging. Creating that atmosphere is a big part of hospitality.”
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“It’s a fine line what not to talk about. I don’t mind a conversation about politics. I can disagree with someone without arguing. But when people talk about bodies and diets at meals, that makes me uncomfortable. Generally, the best rule is not to make assumptions about people. As the host, you’re leading the vibe. You can kindly change the subject.”
Show Interest
“In Texas, small talk is not just about talking. Asking people about themselves, diving a little deeper, to me is very genuine. People are very interested in learning about others and sharing in humanity. We might not all be in the same boat, but we’re all in the same sea. You can have kind conversations with complete strangers.”
